Be Kind to You

Be Kind to You

Be kind to yourself before taking care of your partner’s needs… Love and kindness starts with you being kind and loving to you. Sometimes people take on projects and invest all their time, energy and resources in their partners because they don’t feel worthy or...
Secrets: What to Share and What Not to Share

Secrets: What to Share and What Not to Share

Before communicating with your romantic partner, make sure that you have considered the impact of your communication on the person you “love.” Some people are totally oblivious to the impact of their attitude, words and actions on others. Big mistake!  Before...
Talk About It…

Talk About It…

Talk about current upsets or problems. Time will resolve NOTHING.  Only finding and addressing the root causes of the problems will help your relationship flourish and grow stronger. DO NOT point a finger at your partner and do not itemize what you have done right and...
Listen with Love

Listen with Love

If you listen to your partner with love, there is always something in what they say that you can agree with. When your partner shares something with you, an opinion, idea or plan, do not start with saying “no” or telling them all that you disagree with them on. How...
Show your Appreciation

Show your Appreciation

Show your love to your partner, show your appreciation of who they are and what they do for you. Smile, touch, kiss.  Send little text messages or call during the day to show that they are important to you and that you are there for them.  If you do these things and...